By Lily Rose
Sharing this experience for young women out there who are victims of this emotional blackmail. The cry for acceptance from indolent men who say that \”women like money\” and \”a woman should struggle with a broke guy to prove herself\” What!
The way women struggle for money these days is really distorting and it\’s because she wants to prove herself to these types of men, just so that the man will not think she is after his money, the money that is yet to exist.
She wants to be able to sort herself out leaving nothing for the man to do for her except allow her bear his name and children. Don\’t get me wrong. It\’s important for every human being to be productive.
Let me tell you, these types of guys are ingrates, they use her money to sponsor extramarital affairs, because they have too much time to sleep around, they really need to feel adequate and want to be where they can feel like a man by spending on a woman even if the money belongs to their hardworking wives.
I woke up this morning reliving some experiences I had when I was in the dating scene. It was with this nice looking guy, a gynaecologist in the making, it was like love at first sight, my presence cured this guy\’s insomnia, reduced his habits, that his friends accused me of bewitching him and commended my effort. I didn\’t do anything it\’s just in my nature to make good things happen.
Well, to cut the long story short, Romeo and Juliet had to part ways because as he put it back then, my father\’s name was not a household name.
Then I met another one who bragged that his ex fiancé was the daughter of a former Senator as if it was an achievement for him.
Guys who only describe their wives or girlfriends by their achievements, \”my wife is a top executive, my babe is a big chic etc\” not how loving she is.
There are plenty of guys out there who want a woman whose salary or father\’s name will take off the responsibility of being a husband and a father. These guys back then were in their late 30s and early forties and were broke. I didn\’t bother to tell them what my Father\’s name can do where they are in government because spiritual indolence has no cure! I was only concerned with what I can do!
Money is not power it is just a tool! Yes, it can buy you stuff and may be, keep you out of trouble if you use it well.
But the kind of tool a woman should work on is Spiritual Power! The power to stand in front of a door and it opens without knocking, to remove obstacles to progress, to make things happen with an earnest volition for what is good through the abilities God has bestowed upon her. That is the kind of power a woman should have, with that kind of power money flows to her effortlessly.
There are hardworking successful men out there who just need a woman who is connected to the Light, who will Love them for who they are and not for what they have, give them the much needed spiritual support to face the hazards that come with money making, they want to spend this money.
It\’s just most of them end up with schemers who have been mentally and emotionally abused by those indolent gold miners and these type of women do nothing but give hell to these hardworking men, we can call it transferred aggression but that is what is trending today.
Do you know that there are more single, divorced men than women? You will not believe it, because we just assume that every man with a big belly and in their late thirties and forties are married, some wear rings just to be taken seriously.
My dears, there is nothing to prove, just wish your self well and stay away from lazy men, poverty is not a virtue, productivity is! If poverty and lack is the question paper I permit you to fail woefully with your pride intact and wait for the right exam where you can excel. Mbok.
